Using The Soft Way To Correct Someone

Arrogant and rude are not the solution to correct someone's mistake

There are many ways to correct someone's mistake and take her or him to the right path, without being arrogant and rude.

Even to Allah, every human wants to get soft way when Allah will remind them.

Then why do human use rude way when wanna remind another?

Being rude and arrogant is not the sure or right way to make someone be better. Sometimes those (rude and arrogant) can make other people become worse.

But something sure by using rude and arrogant way to correct someone's mistake or to fix someone, or take someone to the right path are those (rude and arrogant) can make offend and hurt someone. And can make someone get in miss understanding to you too.

You don't need to be rude and arrogant when you wanna remind, correct, fix someone's mistake.

Loving, caring and trying to understand the person and the situation, also to choose the soft way can be used to correct someone's mistake with better. Insya Allah the person who goes wrong can see the wrong thing or the mistake that he or she has made and understand it then come back to the right path without tears of sadness which is caused get hurt and offend, without anger and upset or even without hate to you.
But the person can like you more or even fall in love with you. Feeling thank you too. And the smile will be on his or her face. Happiness smiling.

Respect and appreciate the people around you, especially the closest one with you. And remember please, that he or she or they are human who can feel sad, happy, guilty, regret, offend, hurt. Because they are alive and have a heart.

More more special to your beloved parents.

#Levina R.