the candy can be so bitter sometimes

When you cannot give a smile, at least don't hurt.

When people destroy your dreams, then get up and create another dream. your own dreams. and create your own happiness.

Why should be busy by hoping from others, who even never care ?

When people have been sticking with their own ego, they can skip you aside. Even cannot see how bitter the candy is.

Well..ok, maybe they don't know if the candy can be so bitter too sometimes.

#anotherlessonoflife
#Levina R.

God will never leave you alone

People can drag you down, can put you in a big problem and let you face all alone, make you crazy with all the messy things around you, give you many things to think in your mind, tired with the complicated situation and should be able to deal with all.

Well..., sometimes it's a life or maybe you can say, it's a part of life.

You cannot always find beautiful flowers in your garden, sometimes you can find emptiness and darkness.

One thing that you should always remember that God will never leave you alone. So getting closer to God and keep the faith.

#anotherlessonoflife

#LR.

Realized or Unaware

Realized or Unaware

to keep reaching something and skip another thing, it can be understood that it's the important thing and ready to be fought for it now. and let the other be done later which is not the important one for now.

The important thing can be the first priority and the other one is not so.

#anotherlessonoflife
#LR.

To let it fly

Sometimes...
To give up doesn't mean weakness.
Stop chasing something doesn't mean don't care.
But it can be that it's time to understand and sincerely to accept that to let it fly to those who will have it is a better way to do.



#anotherlessonoflife
#LR.

Alasan Menulis Blog

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

(Kenapa Menulis Blog) / Day 1 (November 20, 2018)

Blog dapat dikatan sebagai diary digital, dimana menulis tentang berbagai hal yang disuka, termasuk curhat dengan tanpa menggunakan buku dan pena. Blog juga banyak dimanfaatkan untuk keperluan bisnis dan berbagi informasi. 

Blog sudah hadir cukup lama, tetapi sampai saat ini masih ada yang belum mengenal apa itu blog. Dapat dikatakan blog popular untuk kalangan tertentu. Hal ini mungkin terjadi karena tidak semua orang menyukai menulis, atau penggunaannya tidak seseru facebook dan social media lainnya. 

Bagi mereka yang suka menulis, blog merupakan salah satu media yang seru, karena dapat menghias blog dengan tema yang telah disediakan dan menggantinya sesuai keinginan kapan saja. Selain menulis, blogger (sebutan bagi mereka yang menggunakan blog) juga dapat memposting foto dan video. 

Saya sendiri mengenal blog belum lama. Saya tidak memiliki tema khusus untuk blog saya ini dan menulis berbagai hal yang saya ingin bagikan di sini dan berharap dapat bermanfaat bagi yang membaca. Hal ini memudahkan saya untuk menulis dengan tidak membatasi diri saya untuk hanya menulis tentang satu atau dua hal saja. Bagi saya masih tidak mudah untuk menemukan konten atau materi, dan menulis hanya terfokus pada satu atau dua tema tertentu.

Jika ditanya, kenapa saya mnulis blog ?

Salah satunya karena menurut saya menulis blog lebih seru daripada menulis di buku. Walaupun tidak semudah ketika menulis di buku, yang mana dapat dilakukan dimana saja dan bisa secara tiba-tiba. Karena hanya membutuhkan buku dan alat tulis. 

Dengan menulis blog, saya dapat berbagi informasi atau pengalaman yang mungkin dapat dimanfaatkan bagi yang lain. Seperti menulis tentang pengalaman ketika saya pergi ke suatu tempat dan juga memposting foto-foto yang berkaitan untuk mendukung tulisan saya. 

Ya, dengan menulis blog lebih mudah untuk berbagi informasi dan bisa menjangkau lebih luas. 

Saya juga mudah mengedit jika ada tulisan yang perlu unutk diperbaiki. Selain itu mudah juga jika ingin mengaitkannya dengan tulisan-tulisan saya yang lain. 

Menulis blog dapat melatih kemampuan menulis saya yang masih sangat jauh dari kata bagus.. hehehe..

Ini seperti mempunyai website pribadi tetapi tidak selengkap website asli. Dengan aturan penggunaan yang mudah dan beberapa aturan dapat kita terapkan sendiri, termasuk untuk diri kita sendiri. 

Saya menikmati menulis blog.  

I think that's all for answering the question WHY DO I WRITING BLOG ?

And how about you ?  :) 

See you around.. 

Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

#Levina R. 

Subject And To Be

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

This time I would like to share about Subject and To be. Every each Subject has to be.
Here they are :


Subject                             To Be

   I                →           am  (Present)    →  was     (past)

 You             →           are  (Present)   →  were   (past)

  We             →           are  (Present)   →  were   (past)

 They           →           are  (Present)   →  were   (past)

  He             →            is    (Present)   →  was     (past)

 She             →            is   (Present)    →  was     (past)

  It               →            is   (Present)   →  was     (past)


Example :

I am a student

You are a pupil

We are pupils

They are teachers

He is a doctor

She is a nurse

It is a good book



The contracted form or short form of them are :

I am          →   I'm

You are     →   You're

We are      →   We're

They are   →   They're

He is        →   He's

She is      →   She's

It is         →    It's



That's it for now.
I'm sorry if i make the mistakes.
Enjoy the English ;)

Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.



#Levina R.

A Marriage And Some Things Are Needed In It

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

What is the meaning of marriage?

mar·riage

ˈmerij/

noun

noun: marriage; plural noun: marriages

1. 1.

   the legally or formally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship (historically and in some jurisdictions specifically a union between a man and a woman).

   
   
   

   "a happy marriage"

   
   
   

   synonyms:

   wedding, wedding ceremony, marriage ceremony, nuptials, union "the marriage took place at St. Margaret's"

   antonyms:

   divorce, separation

   • the state of being married.

     
     
     

     "they were celebrating 50 years of marriage"

     
     
     

     synonyms:

     (holy) matrimony, wedlock "a proposal of marriage"

2. 2.

   a combination or mixture of two or more elements.

   
   
   

   "a marriage of jazz, pop, blues, and gospel"

   
   
   

   synonyms:

   union, alliance, fusion, mixture, mix, blend, amalgamation, combination, merger "a marriage of jazz, pop, and gospel"

   antonyms:

   separation

   • (in pinochle and other card games) a combination of a king and queen of the same suit.

https://www.google.co.id/search?safe=strict&rlz=1C1MOWC_enID568ID568&ei=b3-YW7yEKYS8vwT_rJ_IBA&q=marriage+is&oq=marriage+is&gs_l=psy-ab.3..0j0i203k1j0j0i203k1l2j0l4j0i203k1.6289.8500.0.10452.8.8.0.0.0.0.119.753.7j1.8.0....0...1.1.64.psy-ab..0.8.748...0i22i30k1j0i22i10i30k1j0i67k1j0i10k1.0.WHUe_v4zI7E

I got the translation of marriage from Google. 

Some people think that marriage is very important and some others think differently.

Maybe some people think that marriage can solve or make the end of the problems that they are facing at that time. There are some people who have different thought too, and some other thought marriage is not important at all.

I think their thoughts get influenced by their knowledge about marriage, or experience or even the life story of the people around them. The culture and environment, also family life can affect their way of thinking about marriage.

For me, marriage is such as a big thing, important thing, and a big step that is taken in someone's life. Because through to marriage, it's not only can answer some questions that people like to give to adult people but also to gain more happiness in life. 

Marriage is not about a man and woman who will live together in one house, but it’s such a mix of one family with another family to become one family. From one small family that ties with another family. So marriage is not a simple thing but it’s a special thing in someone’s life. 

And in my religion, it's such as one thing that can be to perfect of our worship and it's a very important thing too. So from here, I take that marriage is not just a status, but can change some parts in someone's life. Of course hopefully, through to this the changing that happens will be able to take a person to be the better one, not the opposite.

A marriage maybe can answer some questions, but it opens some new things come into someone's life. That's why some changes come too. 

When you are being single, you can do anything as you like. You can go here and there as you like and decide anything only according to your willingness or your view. 

But after marriage, you cannot be like this. You have to be able to share many things with your spouse, not only the bed but also time and when to make a decision. You should be able to listen to your spouse's opinion. Sometimes there are some new rules that a couple make to run the marriage relationship well and give good result too. 

After some time the couple gets kids, so they must be able to share with their kids too. They must be able to take good care of their kids and to cooperate or collaborate as a team. 

More than that, a marriage can make a small family to be a big family. Because in a marriage is not only about a man and a woman who become one, but also two families (from man side and woman side) become one big family. Although when running a marriage life or a household, there are only a man and woman who do it. Their every family cannot get involved in their marriage or household "management", because it's a husband and wife's area.

Some things are needed in a marriage life:

➤ A Marriage should make someone be better one

Marriage is a pure and special thing, a very good thing. So it should take you to a good direction and make you be a better person.

➤ A Marriage makes you happier

A marriage should be able to bring happiness to the couple and their family. They start the wedding with laugh and happiness, so there is hope in it which a marriage can bring happiness always to them, not only on that day but also many days ahead.

➤ There is no forcing in a marriage

A good marriage is no forcing in it. It should come from the heart and there is love in it. Because marriage is not for a day or a week, but it's forever. Hope it's for once in a lifetime.

➤The Couple must have the same vision

The couple must have the same vision about marriage and household life. So that they can run life properly. This thing also can make easier when the couple wants to make a decision about something.

➤ The Couple must be able to respect, appreciate, and value each other and the effort that they have done.

Both husband and wife must be able to do this to make a better and happy family. Because every each person has the right to be treated with respect, appreciation, and value. Although the effort doesn't give a maximal result or even fail to solve something, still respect, appreciate and value are needed to each other. This is what a good team must have.

➤ To be Faithful and Honest with each other

These are very important things. The husband and wife must be faithful to each other and give true love. This will make your love stronger for each other and also can make strong of the marriage bond. Talking honestly to each other is a must. So both husband and wife can understand and know deeply to each other. No cheating or there is no affair behind.

➤ Communication

Another thing that is a must in a relationship, more of that in marriage life is communication. Good communication, of course. Talk frankly or openly to your spouse so that he/she knows the truth of you and let them know deeper about you. This will make them know you well and understand more about you. The same way that your spouse to do toward you. This will avoid miscommunication and misunderstanding to each other in marriage life.

➤ Listen to each other

A husband must be able to listen to his wife and the same way also the wife to do toward her husband. This is related to respect, appreciate, and value your spouse. When both of you want to make a decision about something, it's good if you talk first to your spouse and listen what is his/ her opinion, then both of you can make the decision together. It means that you love, care, respect, appreciate and value your spouse well. Please stop being the selfish and or bossy person.

➤ To give trust and take good care of it

In a marriage life, a couple still has to give "space" to their spouse to let them do their own activities. So both husband and wife should give "the trust" to each other and both of them must be able to keep it. They must be able to take good care the trust that they get from their spouse and please don't cheat behind or you can face "the fire" that can burn both of your happiness.

➤ Treat your spouse properly and no violence 

A marriage is built by love, respect, appreciate, value, care, and the willingness to live together forever with peace. So you must be able to treat your spouse properly. Your spouse is not a toy or doll that you can do anything toward him/ her as you like. You must remember that your spouse is a human being the same as you, who has a heart and can feel hurt or pain if something bad happens toward him/ her. Don't ever use violence when both of you have a quarrel or face the problems. The violence is never being a problem solving or ending the quarrel. Any kind of violence only make everything to be worse, whether rude words, hitting, kicking, or other violence.

➤ Grow the love and care toward each other

Both husband and wife should be able to work together for doing this. This is very good to maintain the love and care of each other and also to grow them. So you will have peace life and enjoyable.

All of those things must be able to do together by both husband and wife then only can give the complete result for having a wonderful life in a marriage. To help each other for doing those things is such as a sweet thing to do for your spouse rather than you leave or ignore your spouse. Using polite attitude toward each other will give "sugar" in your relationship with your spouse.

May all of you have a beautiful and happy married life with full of love and peace 💓

Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb. 

#LR.

Islam is Rahmatan lil'alamin

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

That I know..
Islam is Rahmatan lil'alamin
Islam loves peace.

I do agree with the lyric of Maher Zain's song which says :

"... Now we share the same bright sun
The same round moon
Why don't we share the same love ?
Tell me why not
Life is shorter than most had thought

Hold my hand
There are many ways to do it right
Hold my hand
Turn around and see what we've left behind
Hold my hand, my friend,
We could save the good spirit in me and you
For another chance
And let's pray for the beautiful world
The beautiful world I share with you ... "

Even we don't know how long we will stay here in this world, so why can't we share something good or make others happy?
Even just give a smile, or letting the peace rises up around us by respecting other people and what the good things that they do for them and their family, while they don't disturb us at all.

I don't mean to offend anyone here, I only feel sad to see around here and out there...

For me, it's such as a bless to be born and live here in my country with various of difference and diversity. This situation lets me learn and makes me understand how to respect and appreciate its difference without disturbing my own Iman. Because my religion teaches about how to respect and appreciate each other.


Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

#peaceandlove


#Levina R.

Review Buku "Nge-BLOG dengan Hati" Karya Ndoro Kakung

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

Pada kesempatan kali ini saya mau review sedikit tentang buku : Nge-BLOG dengan Hati karya Ndoro Kakung. 

Menurut saya buku ini bagus, bahasanya juga mudah dipahami, malah seperti kita berkomunikasi dengan penulis. Seperti sedang “curhat” J

Banyak informasi yang bisa didapat, khususnya bagi para bloger pemula. Ada solusi-solusi dari permasalahan yang mungkin bisa terjadi, atau malah sedang terjadi untuk para blogger. Misalnya saja seperti terkena stress karena ada komentar yang tidak menyenangkan dari pembaca, atau sedang “mogok” menulis di blog. Bahkan di sini juga dijelaskan bagaimana menjadi seorang bloger yang baik.

Yup.. seperti judul bukunya Nge-Blog dengan Hati, so di sini dijelaskan bagaiman menulis blog tetapi dengan hati. Tidak melulu berhubungan dengan materi atau keuangan.  Tetapi hati juga perlu dilibatkan.

Kalau dilihat pada diri saya sendiri, sepertinya saya ini menulis dengan hati.. hehehe… Saya masih terbawa dengan mood untuk menulis di blog. Saya sudah mulai menulis blog itu sejak beberapa tahun lalu, tetapi hasil tulisan saya masih sangat sedikit, karena masih kurang sering untuk menulis di blog.. hehehehe…

Jika ada yang bilang “wah..sudah lama ya menulis di blog..”, rasanya saya agak malu.. karena memang kenyataan kalau memulai blog sudah lama tapi hasil tulisan masih sangat sedikit, tidak berbanding lurus dengan waktu yang sudah ditempuh.. hehehehe..

Ok, balik lagi ke bukunya Ndoro Kakung ini. Melalui buku ini, penulis juga mengingatkan bahwa menjadi seorang blogger yang pintar atau cerdas, bukan hanya mementingkan banyaknya pengunjung atau banyaknya iklan sehingga menambah penghasilan, tetapi lebih mengutamakan keaslian hasil karya atau tidak plagiat dan menggunakan hati. Di dalam buku ini juga diingatkan bahwa di dunia maya pun ada batasan atau aturan hukum yang berlaku, jadi tidak bisa seenaknya untuk menulis atau memposting sesuatu. Intinya buku ini memberikan banyak informasi juga ilmu yang bermanfaat bagi para blogger, khususnya blogger pemula.

That's it for now.

Thank you for reading.. 

see you on my next page ;) 

Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb. 

#Levina R.

English Part 2 : Do, Does, Did pada kalimat Positive, Negative, dan Interogative

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim

Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

Hi.. 

Kali ini saya akan membahas tentang kalimat positive, negatif, dan interogatif dengan menggunakan Do, Does, Did dalam bahasa Inggris. Saya juga akan menyertakan beberapa contoh kalimatnya, semoga dapat lebih mudah dimengerti dan dipraktekan  :) 

Dalam membuat kalimat ini, yang perlu diperhatikan adalah subject dan kata kerja atau lebih dikenal dengan "verb" yang akan dipakai, juga waktu kejadian. 

Contoh Verb seperti : Work, Study, Visit, Sleep, See, Wash, Watch, Cook, dan seterusnya.

Contoh Keterangan waktu kejadian seperti : Last night, yesterday, last week, dan seterusnya.

Untuk Subject They, We, I, You berpasangan dengan Do.

They, We, I, You  >>>   Do

Untuk kata kerja pada subject ini tidak perlu ditambahkan "S" dibelakangnya. Jika aktivitas dilakukan telah lampau maka bentuk kata akan berubah. 

Ada kata kerja yang beraturan (regular verb) dan kata kerja yang tidak beraturan (irrigular verb). Untuk kata kerja yang beraturan, dibekang kata kerjanya tinggal ditambahkan "ed". 

Contohnya seperti : Cook menjadi Cooked. 

Sedangkan untuk kata yang tidak beraturan, maka tidak dapat ditambhakan dengan "ed", bisa bentuknya berubah atau juga sama tetapi pengucapannya berbeda.

Contohnya seperti : go menjadi went, read menjadi read, sleep menjadi slept, dan seterusnya.

Untuk kata kerja yang tidak beraturan ini tidak ada jalan lain selain menghfalkan kata-kata tersebut dan perubahan bentuknya.

Untuk Subject He, She, It berpasangan dengan Does.

He, She, It   >>>  Does.

Untuk semua Subject jika kejadiannya lampau akan menggunakan Did.

They, We, I, You, He, She, It   >>>   Did.

Pada kalimat tanya kata kerja yang digunakan akan kembali pada bentuk pertama atau tidak dalam bentuk lampau, walaupun waktunya menunjukkan aktivitasnya telah lampau.

Contoh kalimatnya :

Kalimat Positive (+)

I work today 

They wash my car today.

He works today.

She washes my car today.

Kalimat Negative (-)

I don't work today

They don't wash my car today.

"don't" adalah singkatan dari "do not"

He doesn't work today

She doesn't wash my car today.

"doesn't" adalah singkatan dari "does not"

Kalimat Interogative (?)

Do you work today ?

Do they wash your car today ?

Does he work today ?

Does she wash my car today ?

Kapan kita dapat menggunakan "Did" ?  

"Did" digunakan untuk aktivitas yang telah lampau. 

Contoh :

Kalimat Positive (+)

We studied together last week.

You played badminton last Sunday.

He visited zoo last weekend.

She cooked soup and fried chicken last night.

Kalimat Negative (-)

We didn't study together last week.

You didn't play badminton last Sunday.

He didn't visit Zoo last weekend.

She didn't cook soup and friend chicken last night.

"didn't" singkatan dari "did not"

Kalimat Interogative (?)

Did we study together last week ?

Did you play badminton last Sunday ?

Did he visit Zoo last weekend ?

Did she cook soup and friend chicken last night ?

That's it for now... :) 

Jika terjadi kesalahan, please let me know the correct one. I'm still learning too :) 

Thank you for checking this part :)

Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

#Levina R.

They, We, I, you don't like "S" --- (Do, Does)

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.. 

Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb. 

Just a little sharing..  please don't take it or think that i wanna show off... 
I don't mean like that at all.
I only wanna share... 
If this bothers you, please just skip this..  :)  ^_^ 


They, We, I, You   >>>   Do

She, He, It            >>>   Does

Untuk kata kerja yang timbul setelah subject They, We, I, You tidak perlu ditambahkan "S" dibelakangnya.

Tetapi untuk kata kerja yang timbul setelah subject She, He, It perlu ditambahkan "S", "es", atau "ies" dibelakangnya.


Contoh :

They go to school every Monday morning.
I wake up at 5 AM every morning.

She goes to school every Monday morning.
He wakes up at 5 AM every morning.


They    :  Mereka
We       :  Kami
I           :  Saya
You     :  Kamu

She     :  Dia (Perempuan)
He      :  Dia (Laki-laki)
It        :  Benda/ Binatang.


#Levina R.

Failure

Failure gives sadness feeling, it's true. 

But something that should be remembered is God still lets you stay in this world, it means you still have a chance to reach another opportunity. Maybe cannot fix the failure but create your own happiness and reaching success through to another or even different way.

Give the chance to you and love yourself. 

People can say A, B, C to Z, they don't know you, they don't know what you feel and what has happened to you. So don't let their comments or judgement to be the limit for you to reach your happiness. And don't let it drag you down.

Keep moving on, because God knows you very well.

#LR.

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Treat yourself better with respect and appreciate

do it also to the people around you. 

They will do the same toward you.

#LR.

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Sometime you should be able to deal with "Yes", actually you wanna be with "No".
Another time, you should be able to deal with "No", actually you wanna be with "Yes".

It's not easy...  Yes.. 

It's difficult situation.. It's true.
But must be fine with it and believe in God that God will always give you the best.

I'm in it too

#Levina R.

You and They

you have been kind to them, but they cheat you

you give trust, but they break it by doing lie to you

you give chance, but they take it lightly and don't utilize it

you give your time, but they are busy with others and ignore you

you are here, but they skip you 

They can drag you down

they can kick you out

they can hurt and break your heart

they can lie to you and ignore your trust that you give them

they can open the door to let others laugh at you

they can put you in a complicated situation

they can ignore your feeling and let you down and messy

Please remember always that Allah will always there and never does such as all of those things, He will care and love you. so please come back to Him and getting closer. 

Allah will save you, insya Allah 

Be ready to get another chance and fix all the messy, keep trying to reach a better future and make better your own life. 

Forgive them, the people who have made you down, believe that there is beautiful rainbow and bright sky for you ahead.

#LR.