Positive Words to the Kids

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Assalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb.

Hi, I'm back after many days.. hehe..

This time I would like to talk about Positive Words to the Kids.
What do you think? Is it an important thing?

Maybe you can think differently. But for me, it's an important thing. If you use positive words more or often to the kids, it can create or teach them about positive words itself to them. It can build a positive vibe stronger to them.

It's not an easy thing to do, even more, if we don't find something like this around us and we can't control our kids all the time when they play outside and make friends. But we can build such as a basic thing to our kids and keep talking to them and making them talk about anything that they get every day.

It's a good thing if our kids can influence the other kids to keep using positive words so it will give a good impact on them and the other kids for the wide impact.

So there are some ways to do this to our kids, and those are :

1. Keep making good communication and keep being in touch with our kids.

As I said above for this thing, that we can't control our kids all the time, but we can do something to be able to know about them by keeping making good communication and keep being in touch with them. Let them talk about anything that they get on that day. So we come to know about many things or even anything that they get or face on that day.

2. Give them the example always

Give them the example aways about using positive words. Usually, the kids will learn about something through to eyes and they will try to practice it. A visual example is important for them, it will make them easy to copy-paste the action. Not only the visual but the audion also important here. Because it relates to the words, so they need to hear and listen to the words, how and when to express them. The kids will see you use the words and they will try to practice it to you and to the people around them.

3. Correct them softly

If you find something wrong when the kids are talking to you and you think that you never teach them about that, you can correct them softly. Why should we correct them softly ?
They're still learning about being good people, so make a mistake is a normal thing. If we correct them softly, it will help them to learn it well. We don't judge them but inform them that is wrong and show them the true one. So they can make it a better one.
And actually, we can also know how they can make the mistake or make the wrong things. And we also learn from this about to teach them and control them better.

4. Support them always

Another important thing is to support them to use positive words always. Besides giving the example to them about using the positive words we can give them praise as a reward every time we know that they do good things and they use positive words. This can support them to keep doing it and keep being on the track.

5. Make this as one of the basic things.

Make this as one of the basic things that the kids need to learn and to have. So this can be one of the foundations which builds them to be a good person who has a good character and personality in the future.


This is not a kind of something that they learn once and finish. No... it's not this.
We need to do this with the kids all the time and continually, So hopefully it can be something that's strong in their character so they can't forget this easily.


I think that's it for this now. I'll see you again on another page ;)




Wassalamu'alaikum  Wr. Wb.




#Levina R.